He even mentioned finding his clothes folded on the chair downstairs. He asked me if I remembered anything – I lied and said ‘No’. When that phone call ended, my mind started racing with more and more questions. It’s been almost a week now, and there’s not a day that has gone by in which I haven’t thought about that night and all the unanswered questions. This guy is one of my best friends (if not my best friend).(I should mention I’m a nerd who loves bulleted lists.) Now that I’ve got the main part of the story out of the way, let me step back for a minute and fill in some background information. He was one of the first people I came out to.